Guest Article... by Warren Farrell, Ph. D.
Why Dads Matter: The Revolution
Has Started. Heads Up.
On Mother's Day the most phone
calls are made. On Father's Day the most collect phone calls are
made.
We still think of dads as wallets... or as deadbeats if they fail to
be wallets-- but reality is changing faster than the image. In the
last twenty years the percentage of single dads has more than
doubled, from 10% to 23% of all single-parent households. Almost one
in four. Moms moving out of the home has been a headline-creating
revolution; dads moving into the home has been the quietest
revolution. Without the headlines, we miss the revolution. A case in
point…
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Guest Article... by Dr. Linda Neilsen
Daughters:
Strengthen Your Relationship With Your Father
Why is almost all of the advice on
father-daughter relationships directed only at fathers? Once
daughters have matured beyond childhood, why put so much
responsibility or blame on fathers when problems arise or when the
father-daughter relationship falls apart? Instead, let’s encourage
daughters to be more active in creating the kind of relationship
they want with their fathers by offering them a “roadmap through dad
territory”. Let’s teach young women the specific skills and the
non-sexist attitudes that enable them to strengthen their
father-daughter relationships.…
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COYOTE...
monthly column by Dick Prosapio
It's Catching Up
I miss my dad. I thought it had just sneaked up on me, this
feeling, this yearning, for him, but maybe I set it up by the sudden
intrusion into my consciousness of this is my translation, "Way
Marie". I know that's not the real title of the song, but it's what
my kid memory of it is. "Way Marie, Way Marie" and then it went on
in Italian.
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Coyote Archive

JEFF'S LIFE... monthly
column by Jeff Stimpson
The Lot...
I've been on this spot many
times with many different people. I picked the stone at a local
monument shop 27 years ago. For most of my life, "LeRoy A. Stimpson,
Father, 1917-1974" were the only words engraved on it, in black
letters on the gray granite, flecked with brown, dead lengths of
mowed grass. I was here many times with my mother, to what we always
called "the lot," helping her to lug water from the faucet up the
gravel road. Flowers need water.
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Jeff's Life Archive

TRANSITIONS... monthly
column by
Kenneth F. Byers
My Fathers Tree...
I miss my
father most, of course, around Fathers Day. At some level I always
miss my father, yet because of this visit, it will now be different
than it has ever been. There is a tree next to his grave that could
not have been more than a seedling when they first met. The tree has
given him shade which I am sure he would have enjoyed as no one else
could. Somehow, I am also sure, he has nourished that tree in
return. I wished him Happy Fathers Day and talked to him about his
grandchildren and all kinds of things that I thought he might like
to know.
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DADS, DON'T FIX YOUR KIDS...
monthly
column by
Mark Brandenburg,
M.A
"Real" Fathers Day Gifts For Dads
Fathers
are becoming more involved in their families today. They have a deep
desire to connect emotionally with their families. However, they
often lack the skills to do so. Here are ten “gift ideas” for
Father’s Day to help the father in your life to relax, enjoy, and to
connect with other loved ones:
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HANDS-ON DADS
ARE IMPORTANT
Fathers are one of the great, often
untapped, resources in the lives of their children. What dads actually
do with their kids matters more than how often they do it. Even if a
dad is only available occasionally to dress, feed, and care for a
baby, the child will be sure to benefit. The way fathers hold, touch,
talk to, and play with a baby matters more to the child's overall
development than the amount of time a dad punches on the parental time
clock.
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GUEST ARTICLE...
by Glenn Sacks
American Fathers Get a Bad Rap
American
fathers get a bad rap. Unfairly stereotyped by critics left and right,
male and female, at best the American father is generally portrayed as
a second class parent. Worse still are the common images of fathers
as deadbeats, philanderers, and abusers. However, research indicates
that the overwhelming majority of American fathers are none of these.
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