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Book-of-the-Month... January 2004 |
Insult to Injury:
Rethinking our Responses to
Intimate Abuse
by Linda G. Mills, 
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Does our system of requiring the arrest, prosecution,
and incarceration of abusers lessen domestic violence or help
battered women? In this already controversial but vitally important
book, we learn that the criminal justice system may actually be
making the problem of domestic violence worse. Looking honestly at
uncomfortable facts, Linda Mills makes the case for a complete
overhaul and presents a promising alternative.
The evidence turns up some surprising facts about the complexities
of intimate abuse, facts that run against mainstream assumptions:
The current system robs battered women of what power they do hold.
Perhaps as many as half of women in abusive relationships stay in
them for strong cultural, economic, religious, or emotional reasons.
Jailing their partners often makes their situations worse. Women are
at least as physically violent and emotionally aggressive as are men
toward women, and women's aggression is often central to the dynamic
of intimate abuse.
Informed by compelling evidence, personal experience, and what
abused women themselves say about their needs, Mills proposes no
less than a fundamentally new system. Addressing the real dynamics
of intimate abuse and incorporating proven methods of restorative
justice, Mills's approach focuses on healing and transformation
rather than shame or punishment. Already the subject of heated
controversy, Insult to Injury offers a desperately needed and
powerful means for using what we know to reduce violence in our
homes.

Guest Article...
by Linda G. Mills, Ph.D.
Public heaps scorn on male victims of abusive
women
There has been much public snickering about David Gest's $10-million lawsuit against his estranged wife, Liza
Minnelli, in which he claims she beat him. Whether the suit is
rooted in truth or in greed, its existence opens the door for a
public discussion about our society's disquieting and pervasive
problem of abusive women.
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by Alison A. Armstrong
Starting With the War Between the Sexes
About eleven years ago, I received
the most important phone call of my life. I was sitting at my desk,
the executive director of a small organization dedicated to the end
of hunger worldwide. On the other end of the phone, I heard my
friend Ellen say, “Alison, we need to talk. Men are attracted to you
like bees to honey, but when you are done with them, it’s like they
have been with a vampire.”
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Accepting Your Children's Mistakes
One of the most difficult parts of
being a father is to learn to accept your children’s mistakes. It’s
certainly easy to be loving, supportive, and helpful when your
children are mistake-free, but most fathers who are paying attention
don’t find too many mistake-free periods of their children’s lives.
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COYOTE...
monthly column by Dick Prosapio
Life; and Other Real Stuff
It was Monday night and the
Packer-Oakland game was about to start when the phone rang. My
sisters voice was soft and quiet, a definite warning sign, "When did
you talk to mom last?"
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column by Jeff Stimpson
Overnight Change
Three months ago, a doctor asked me how
Alex sleeps. "Great!" I replied, with the enthusiasm common to those
about to stride into spinning propeller blades. "Eleven hours a
night!"
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