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Book-of-the-Month... AUGUST 2005 |
Straight Talk for Men
about Marriage
:
What Men Need to Know about Marriage
(And What Women Need to Know About Men)
by Marty Friedman

“In simple, concrete and inspiring language,
Martin Friedman describes how to create a 21st-century
relationship that works for both men and women. The section
for women to
understand men should be required reading for women.”
Pat Love, Ed.D., author, The Truth About Love
“I was
groping—there had to be more to my marriage, my life, than
this! Straight Talk for Men About Marriage is whittled-down
truth, eloquently spoken. It is not a quick-fix, but a
concise road map, showing what’s possible and how to get
there. It has helped me rediscover my strength, focus and
courage. I heartily encourage any married man to read this
book and begin this vital journey.”
John Brady, Attorney
“Here’s a
revolutionary thought for guys who aren’t happy at home:
What if no one’s really at fault in your marriage, it’s just
that the damn marriage didn’t come with instructions—or at
least instructions that made any sense to us guys.When it
comes to getting solid information about what men can do to
get the marriage they want— and keep their wife happy,
too—Marty Friedman wrote the book. In fact, this is it!”
Laren Bright, Author, Laughter: The Best Meditation
MARTY FRIEDMAN has transformed a
successful 25-year career of speaking and consulting in the
corporate world into a rewarding career consulting and
speaking to men and women on revitalizing their marriages.
His career makeover took place when his wife pointed out
that their marriage was, for all intents and purposes, over.
How he responded to the 2x4 between the eyes created the
basis for his new life and career. Prospering in his
marriage of over 20 years, Marty is one happy guy. He lives
with his wife and children in Northern California.
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Guest Article... by Warren Farrell, Ph. D.
How I Began the Discovery that
Men Earn Less than Women for the Same Work .
If
male bosses are to blame for discrimination, why are women who own
their own businesses earning only 49% of their male
counterparts—that is, why are women netting less when they are their
own bosses than when they have male bosses?
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Guest Article... by
Marty Nemko
Men's Career
Issues
I
get so embarrassed when I forget someone’s name. It’s even worse
when they come over to me and effortlessly toss off, “Hey, Marty!”
and I have to blither, “Hi…” It’s worst of all when she’s just told
me her name and I’ve already forgotten it. I swear, I think I’m
missing the gene for remembering names.
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Guest Article... by
Glenn Sacks
VAWA Renewal Provides Opportunity to Stop Destruction
of Innocent Cops’ Careers
Shot in the line of duty. Twice
awarded the Medal of Honor. Named Essex County, New Jersey Police
Officer of the Year. A highly decorated officer with an impeccable
record. For 22 years police officer Eric Washington battled
criminals on the streets of East Orange, New Jersey. On January 21,
2001 Washington was ambushed and brought down--not by an ex-convict
bent on revenge or a shadowy gunman, but instead by a false
accusation of domestic violence.
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MEN IN MARRIAGE...
monthly column by Marty Friedman
Men: Not Wrong, Just Different
Our
society has recently created a crazy idea: men should be like women
in the way we listen, talk and feel and we should deal with
relationships like women do; we should listen with tremendous
empathy, strive for harmony, and speak fluidly about our feelings.
This is patently absurd, and if a man buys into this idea he will
constantly feel like a failure. If you observe how men communicate
you will see instances of a different communication style,
not necessarily a worse communication style. (See Deborah
Tannen’s work for research about this.)
Go to Article

COYOTE...
monthly column by Dick Prosapio
It's Just a Suit Guys!
Boys and uniforms.....men and
suits. It IS a thing with us without a doubt. When I look
back at my history of wearing uniforms the first picture I recall,
and I still have the actual photo of this, a historical landmark if
there ever was one, there I am in my cowboy suit, complete with a
large and floppy hat. Which, I must add, was true to the genre. Real
cowboys didn't wear those well-shaped chapeaus we see in movies, TV,
and C&W singers today. Back then, if we kids were going to dress up
as cowboys we resembled that famous picture of a disheveled
Billy-the-Kid not a well pressed and dry cleaned Roy Rogers.
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THE NEW INTIMACY...
monthly column by
Judith Sherven, Ph.D. and James Sniechowski, Ph.D.
Meditation on a Small Red Flower...
The other day we took a walk out to
a nearby field. Behind several tall pines, hidden away from open
view, a single, small flower spread its blossoms toward the sun. It
was a deep red, vivid-very strong and straight on its thin stem.
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JEFF'S LIFE... monthly
column by Jeff Stimpson
The Boys at Grandpa's Lake House...
Grandpa has a new summer house.
He has also bought a canoe, a rowboat, beds, and a lot of other
stuff to help us give the boys a good time on a body of water in hot
weather. The house is splendid, with big rooms and lots of bright
wood, a deck and a wine cellar, air conditioning even in the
basement, and few spiders. It's also right on a lake, and has a
shared dock that Alex and Ned, left unsupervised, can run to in
about 20 seconds.
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DADS, DON'T FIX YOUR KIDS...
monthly
column by
Mark Brandenburg,
M.A
Memories of a Father...
Most
fathers today take a lot of pictures and videos of their kids. In
fact, the average kid is in more pictures than the average
super-model. However, many of the memorable experiences with your
kids aren’t ones that can be captured by a camera. Videos and
pictures can’t capture what you’re thinking and feeling when these
experiences occur.
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TOWARD MANHOOD...
A book in progress
by Larry Pesavento
From chapter
11 Part 1... Damsels
Has
anyone noticed how a great many of the books written about men have
titles referring to knighthood. There are Knights In Shining Armor,
Knights Without Armor, Knights in Rusty Armor. Robert Johnson writes
of the knightly myth of Parsifal in his book, He. Robert Bly talks
of slaying the Red Knight on a man's way to maturity.
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Men's
Book Reviews by J. Steven Svoboda |
NEW
REVIEWS
REVIEW:
Why Men Earn More: The
Startling Truth Behind the Pay Gap—and What Women Can Do About It.
By Warren Farrell, Ph.D.
A new book
from Dr. Warren Farrell is of course eagerly awaited by all of us
who care about gender equity. I dare say that each of his books
represents an evolution since the publication of the previous one,
both in terms of Warren’s own growth and in terms of society’s
developing awareness of, and willingness to hear more regarding,
pertinent men’s and women’s (and people’s!) issues.
READ FULL REVIEW
REVIEW:
SPIN SISTERS: How the
Women of the Media Sell Unhappiness and Liberalism to the Women of
America. By Myrna Blyth
Every now and then, it’s fun to try something a little different.
Even if it isn’t quite your cup of tea, it keeps life interesting to
try walking in the moccasins of someone with whom you might have
previously thought you had nothing in common. Myrna Blyth has
written a book specifically designed for, and often directly
addressed to, politically conservative women. People such as myself
who don’t fit into these categories may seemingly have little to
gain from reading Spin Sisters. And in fact, Blyth could have
written the book differently in a way that would have carried the
same essential message while allowing her to speak to a wider
audience inclusive of males and non-conservatives.
READ FULL REVIEW
REVIEW:
TAKING SEX DIFFERENCES SERIOUSLY. By Steven E.
Rhoads.
University of Virginia public policy professor Steven E. Rhoads’
latest book purports to be a meticulously researched and elegantly
written, provocative and groundbreaking exploration of the masculine
and feminine. I found Taking Sex Differences Seriously to be
a solid though unexceptional book that makes a number of interesting
points. Career women, we learn, have higher average testosterone
levels. Rhoads provides interesting detail on how modern university
textbooks ignore women who choose to focus on volunteer and/or
homemaker careers, ironically implying that the only careers
acceptable for women are those traditionally defined (presumably by
the patriarchy) as successful. Along similar lines, the author
deftly points out the absurdity of prescribing and proscribing
activities for our children based on our political wishes.
READ FULL REVIEW
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Steven Svoboda.

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