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Book-of-the-Month... SEPTEMBER 2005

Father's Rights: Hard-Hitting & Fair Advice
 for Every Father Involved in a Custody Dispute

by Jeffery M. Leving

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Jeffery Leving has spent more than a decade in the trenches of domestic law. From that perspective, he gives men embroiled in custody disputes a powerful and impassioned voice in Fathers Rights. Arguing that men are disenfranchised and stigmatized by a biased legal system, Leving promises help through such difficulties as finding empathetic attorneys, avoiding unhealthy custody arrangements, protecting the child-parent relationship, and remaining financially solvent. Included is advice on how to demonstrate parental competence when falsely accused of abuse.
Writing with passion for the plight of an under-represented population in the domestic drama, Fathers' Rights offers sound, step-by-step council and a road map through the complex terrain of family law. "Too often a dangerous free-fall ensues," Leving writes, speaking of divorce's aftermath. "At every step in the divorce process, the legal system deepens marital wounds, serving up revenge and recrimination much more often than it dispenses compassion and justice." It is Leving's mission to right the wrongs caused by divorce court.--This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.   AMAZON

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The psychological turmoil of a divorce doesn't provide the best mental frame for a man to evaluate his options concerning his children, a situation that prompted family relations attorney Leving and psychologist Dachman to write this comprehensive guide for fathers facing divorce. The book clearly explains such legal concepts as custody and access to a child and explains how courts determine a fair level of child support. Checklists are given to help in the selection of the right attorney. Possible legal strategies are discussed for ending a case as equitably as possible and for what to do when all else fails ("Going to war"). Not simply a legal primer, Fathers' Rights also analyzes a man's stress levels and pinpoints when counseling may be required as well as ways to rebuild the relationship with a child after the divorce is final. Concise yet empathetic, it should provide real support to any man going through divorce. Brian McCombie   

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Guest Article... by Warren Farrell, Ph. D.
Farrell’s Research Challenges Labor Day Myth: “Men Paid More for Same Work”
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ctually, in the Census Data according to Farrell, although men make more than women for different work, women now make more than men for the same work. A claim like that calls for a few cross-examining questions...

Q: What is this “different work” that supposedly leads to women’s lower pay?

Farrell: Men and women make 25 different work-life choices. Each leads to men earning more money; and each leads to women having better lives.

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Guest Article... by Marty Nemko
A Late Adoptors Guide to Blogging
W
hen I hear about computings’ latest and greatest, my reflex is to turn away. I recall my first experiences with computers: arcane commands, lost files, and, later, the blue screen of death, offering such cheery news as: fatal error at 0000D24767694Q.
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Guest Article... by Wendy McElroy
Gender Bias in Domestic Violence Treatment
F
eminists who believe that gender must be a deciding factor in who addresses domestic violence and how it should be addressed, are appalled. They view the very prospect of hiring a male director as violating the "mission" of the shelter movement: to assist battered women and children.
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Guest Article... by Glenn Sacks and Jeffery M. Leving
Persecuting Low Income Parents
In a highly-publicized move, Jefferson County, Kentucky Attorney Irv Maze recently published the names and addresses of 1,000 alleged “deadbeat parents” in the Louisville Courier-Journal. The move has drawn praise nationally, and Maze says the list is helping his office locate debtors. However, most of the parents on Maze’s humiliating list are not those who won’t pay, but instead those who can’t pay.
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MEN IN MARRIAGE... monthly column by Marty Friedman
The Keys to Understanding Men and Creating a Lifelong, Loving Relationship
R
ecently, a female radio host’s very first question to me was: “Why won’t men change?” I answered her: “Men won’t change because women are trying to change them!” I went on to explain that no man wants to be changed by his woman, any more than a woman would want to be “sold” a new blouse by someone. Wouldn’t you rather “buy” than be “sold”? Similarly, men will change when they choose to do so, not when you make demands or criticize them for them not changing. And they are much more likely to choose to change when they come to own their own conclusions and you work with them, rather than against them. The question to explore here is how you can work with your man to create a long and loving relationship.
 
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COYOTE... monthly column by Dick Prosapio
The Pay-Off
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e have always managed to be "out of debt". At least that's how I've described the fact that we pay off any credit card charges every month so that we don't have any interest charges on them. This hasn't always been true, when we've bought a newer car or truck for example, but MOST of the time, we are unencumbered; no car payments, no time payments on computers or TV's, etc. If I mentioned this to anyone they would always say; "Except for the mortgage though right?"

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JEFF'S LIFE... monthly column by Jeff Stimpson
Tooth Fairy... 

A few days have gone by, and I can't remember when I first spied it. Or didn't spy it. Maybe Alex was laughing one evening when Jill was out, after dinner (for Alex, probably two hot dogs and a chocolate protein bar) and I had the guys alone, and I glanced over and quickly thought something was just a little ... off. 
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DADS, DON'T FIX YOUR KIDS... monthly column by Mark Brandenburg, M.A
Memories of a Father...
Some day, you’ll be sitting with your child, listening to the radio or watching a program on TV. Somebody will be talking about premarital sex, illegal drug use, breaking the law, or some other highly charged issue. And then, your child will start to ask questions. What did you do when you were younger? How often? 
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TOWARD MANHOOD... A book in progress by Larry Pesavento

From chapter 11 Part 2... Sex
The fear of "selfish", "licentious" sex, especially among adolescents, dominates our formal social attitudes. The message we all get about sex is more shaming than uplifting, more about denying it than living it. Healthy heterosexual relations are often stymied or truncated by these shaming messages and structures. Yet, informally, society is obsessed with sex, both by moralizing on it and yet acting it out. Both obsessions act to the detriment of adult relationships.

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 Men's Book Reviews by J. Steven Svoboda

NEW REVIEWS

REVIEW: Why Men Earn More: The Startling Truth Behind the Pay Gap—and What Women Can Do About It. By Warren Farrell, Ph.D.
A new book from Dr. Warren Farrell is of course eagerly awaited by all of us who care about gender equity. I dare say that each of his books represents an evolution since the publication of the previous one, both in terms of Warren’s own growth and in terms of society’s developing awareness of, and willingness to hear more regarding, pertinent men’s and women’s (and people’s!) issues.
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REVIEW: SPIN SISTERS: How the Women of the Media Sell Unhappiness and Liberalism to the Women of America. By Myrna Blyth
Every now and then, it’s fun to try something a little different. Even if it isn’t quite your cup of tea, it keeps life interesting to try walking in the moccasins of someone with whom you might have previously thought you had nothing in common. Myrna Blyth has written a book specifically designed for, and often directly addressed to, politically conservative women. People such as myself who don’t fit into these categories may seemingly have little to gain from reading Spin Sisters. And in fact, Blyth could have written the book differently in a way that would have carried the same essential message while allowing her to speak to a wider audience inclusive of males and non-conservatives.
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REVIEW:  TAKING SEX DIFFERENCES SERIOUSLY. By Steven E. Rhoads.
University of Virginia public policy professor Steven E. Rhoads’ latest book purports to be a meticulously researched and elegantly written, provocative and groundbreaking exploration of the masculine and feminine. I found Taking Sex Differences Seriously to be a solid though unexceptional book that makes a number of interesting points. Career women, we learn, have higher average testosterone levels. Rhoads provides interesting detail on how modern university textbooks ignore women who choose to focus on volunteer and/or homemaker careers, ironically implying that the only careers acceptable for women are those traditionally defined (presumably by the patriarchy) as successful. Along similar lines, the author deftly points out the absurdity of prescribing and proscribing activities for our children based on our political wishes.
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Archive of All Reviews & Interviews... by J. Steven Svoboda.

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MENSIGHT Magazine is another free service of The Men's Resource Network, Inc. (MRN). It has grown out of the response that we have received from articles posted on TheMensCenter.com (TMC), our official web-site. The first issue went on-line on May 1, 2000. (Archive)

MENSIGHT is dedicated to publishing diverse articles for and about men. We believe that there are valuable lessons to be learned from the advocates of all the various men's issues.

MENSIGHT will publish articles, stories and information that will be welcomed by many and controversial to others. We offer the magazine for your edification but you are free to disagree or reject what you do not like. Be advised that we do not necessarily agree with every position that is expressed here.

We hope that you will be entertained, informed, educated, stimulated, and/or motivated by what you read here. We seek to empower men to be the authority of their own lives. We do not seek to tell men what to think or feel.

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