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Book-of-the-Month... November 2006

See Jane Hit: Why Girls are Growing More Violent
and What We Can Do About It

By James Garbarino, Ph.D. © 2006

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Garbarino, author of Lost Boys (2002), now investigates girlhood aggression. Through voluminous research and brief first-person statements from teens, Garbarino uncovers a steadily increasing trend toward violence among America's girls. He asks, "Are the forces that put women into professional basketball the same forces that put U.S. Army private Lynndie England in the position of torturing Iraqi prisoners at the Abu Ghraib prison?" He finds answers in perspectives as varied as those of Thich Nhat Hanh, Mary Pipher, and Betty Friedan. In discussing the influence of pop culture on girls, Garbarino analyzes the impact of Hermione's socially acceptable punch in the third Harry Potter movie and the physical aggression in the cartoon Powerpuff Girls. He also investigates the traditional sources of acceptance for girls and their growing frustration with relying on others for personal validation, a shift that has girls excelling in sports as they rely on aggressive play to achieve victory. The message that "aggression works" is taught loud and clear in American society, and, as Garbarino proves, today's young girls are clearly listening. From Booklist

Excerpt from See Jane Hit... by Steven B. Poulter
Chapter One
The New American Girl Gets Physical

Youth violence is in the news. After two decades of public outcry about juvenile violence the newspaper headlines may seem unremarkable at first glance: "Teen Hazing Turns Vicious," "Gang Beats Man Senseless," "Teenagers Indicted for Murder," "School Shooter Sought Revenge for Put Downs," "Youth Arrested in Murder Plot Aimed at Parents." Many people will be surprised to hear that the perpetrators in all of these cases were girls. The violence perpetrated by boys has been on our minds as a serious issue for many years. But violent girls? What's that all about?

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REVIEW: See Jane Hit: Why Girls are Growing More Violent and What We Can Do About it
By James Garbarino, Ph.D. ©2006. Seven years after writing “Lost Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How We Can Save Them,” James Garbarino, Ph.D., professor of humanistic psychology at Loyola University Chicago, has published what could roughly speaking be described as a companion volume, “See Jane Hit: Why Girls are Growing More Violent and What We Can Do About It.” Garbarino writes well, and his book addresses a topic that has drawn significant interest in recent years, having been addressed in at least four other recent volumes. “See Jane Hit” is interesting reading for gender activists, since Garbarino writes from a more mainstream perspective that uncritically accepts some anti-male falsehoods, yet at the same time is a generally thoughtful and fair-minded commentator.
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REVIEW: See Jane Hit: Why Girls are Growing More Violent and What We Can Do About it
By James Garbarino, Ph.D. ©2006
Seven years after writing “Lost Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How We Can Save Them,” James Garbarino, Ph.D., professor of humanistic psychology at Loyola University Chicago, has published what could roughly speaking be described as a companion volume, “See Jane Hit: Why Girls are Growing More Violent and What We Can Do About It.” Garbarino writes well, and his book addresses a topic that has drawn significant interest in recent years, having been addressed in at least four other recent volumes. “See Jane Hit” is interesting reading for gender activists, since Garbarino writes from a more mainstream perspective that uncritically accepts some anti-male falsehoods, yet at the same time is a generally thoughtful and fair-minded commentator.
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REVIEW: Straight Talk for Men about Marriage: What Men Need to Know About Marriage (And What Women Need to Know About Men)
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The author has put together an appealingly presented, male-friendly guide to improving the quality of our marriages. As Friedman is the first to point out, this isn’t exactly rocket science. We need to learn to do the basics. A marriage is a path to learning about ourselves. Projecting our discontent onto our spouse doesn’t do either of us any favors.
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