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Book-of-the-Month...
November 2006 |
See Jane Hit: Why Girls are Growing More Violent
and What We Can Do About It
By
James Garbarino,
Ph.D.
© 2006

Garbarino, author of Lost Boys (2002),
now investigates girlhood aggression. Through
voluminous research and brief first-person
statements from teens, Garbarino uncovers a
steadily increasing trend toward violence among
America's girls. He asks, "Are the forces that
put women into professional basketball the same
forces that put U.S. Army private Lynndie
England in the position of torturing Iraqi
prisoners at the Abu Ghraib prison?" He finds
answers in perspectives as varied as those of
Thich Nhat Hanh, Mary Pipher, and Betty Friedan.
In discussing the influence of pop culture on
girls, Garbarino analyzes the impact of
Hermione's socially acceptable punch in the
third Harry Potter movie and the physical
aggression in the cartoon Powerpuff Girls.
He also investigates the traditional sources of
acceptance for girls and their growing
frustration with relying on others for personal
validation, a shift that has girls excelling in
sports as they rely on aggressive play to
achieve victory. The message that "aggression
works" is taught loud and clear in American
society, and, as Garbarino proves, today's young
girls are clearly listening.
From
Booklist
Excerpt from
See Jane Hit...
by Steven B. Poulter
Chapter One
The New American Girl Gets Physical
Youth violence is in the news. After two decades of
public outcry about juvenile violence the newspaper
headlines may seem unremarkable at first glance: "Teen
Hazing Turns Vicious," "Gang Beats Man Senseless,"
"Teenagers Indicted for Murder," "School Shooter Sought
Revenge for Put Downs," "Youth Arrested in Murder Plot
Aimed at Parents." Many people will be surprised to hear
that the perpetrators in all of these cases were girls.
The violence perpetrated by boys has been on our minds
as a serious issue for many years. But violent girls?
What's that all about?
Read
Excerpt
REVIEW:
See
Jane Hit: Why Girls are Growing More Violent and What We
Can Do About it
By James Garbarino, Ph.D. ©2006.
Seven years after writing “Lost
Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How We Can Save Them,”
James Garbarino, Ph.D., professor of humanistic
psychology at Loyola University Chicago, has published
what could roughly speaking be described as a companion
volume, “See Jane Hit: Why Girls are Growing More
Violent and What We Can Do About It.” Garbarino writes
well, and his book addresses a topic that has drawn
significant interest in recent years, having been
addressed in at least four other recent volumes. “See
Jane Hit” is interesting reading for gender activists,
since Garbarino writes from a more mainstream
perspective that uncritically accepts some anti-male
falsehoods, yet at the same time is a generally
thoughtful and fair-minded commentator.
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See Jane
Hit: Why Girls are Growing More Violent and What We Can Do About
it
By James Garbarino, Ph.D. ©2006
Seven
years after writing “Lost
Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How We Can Save Them,”
James Garbarino, Ph.D., professor of humanistic psychology at
Loyola University Chicago, has published what could roughly
speaking be described as a companion volume, “See Jane Hit: Why
Girls are Growing More Violent and What We Can Do About It.”
Garbarino writes well, and his book addresses a topic that has
drawn significant interest in recent years, having been
addressed in at least four other recent volumes. “See Jane Hit”
is interesting reading for gender activists, since Garbarino
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