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Book-of-the-Month...
January 2007 |
Man-Making:
Men Helping Boys on Their Journey to Manhood
By
Earl Hipp

The
Ancient Call: For thousands of years, in
cultures around the world, when the time was
right the men of the village came for the
adolescent boys. Guiding young males toward a
solid and responsible manhood was men's sacred
work. Today, too many men are not answering this
man-making call. The result is an epidemic of
lost, damaged, and under-male-nourished boys.
Man-Making is a practical and inspirational
guide book that shows men how to awaken and
apply their instinctive man-making skills. By
following the easy, how to instructions, and
reading the many stories men have contributed,
every man, regardless of his level of commitment
to this work, will find something he can do to
help a boy or boys on their journey to manhood.
Your Call to Action: If you're a man, you
wouldn't be reading this if you hadn't heard the
man-making call. Right now, there are boys
around you who need the benefit of your wisdom
and support to grow into responsible and
self-assured men. You are the right man for this
work, now is the time, and the boys are waiting.
This book is the answer to the call you hear.
Will you answer? Earl Hipp, M.A., is a
successful author, speaker, and man-maker. Since
1982, he has been involved with groups and
organizations that focus on men's issues and
development. His professional passion is to see
that men discover and use their man-making
skills, so fewer boys are left alone in the
dangerous never-never land between boyhood and
manhood. Book Description

REVIEW by J. Steven
Svoboda:
Man-Making: Men Helping Boys on Their Journey to Manhood
By Earl Hipp
Man-Making
is probably the first book ever to focus on the specific
set of issues raised by initiation and mentoring of
boys. According to the cover biography, author Earl Hipp,
incidentally a fellow New Warrior trainee, has been a
successful author, speaker, and lecturer on men’s issues
and development for nearly a quarter-century. The
publisher is actually the author’s privately owned
corporation, although the book’s highly professional
production values would never give this fact away.
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