Is There Really a
Fatherhood Crisis?
Part 1
By Stephen Baskerville © 2004

Abstract:
Virtually every major social pathology has been linked to fatherless
children: violent crime, drug and alcohol abuse, truancy, unwed
pregnancy, suicide, and psychological disorders—all correlating more
strongly with fatherlessness than with any other single factor.
Tragically, however, government policies intended to deal with the
“fatherhood crisis” have been ineffective at best because the root
cause is not child abandonment by fathers but policies that give
mothers an incentive to initiate marital separation and divorce.

During the past decade, family issues
such as marriage and fatherhood have rocketed to the top of the
domestic-policy agenda. The past two presidential administrations,
along with numerous local governments, have responded to the
continuing crisis of the family by devising measures to involve
governmental machinery directly in the management of what had
previously been considered private family life. The Bush
administration has proposed $300 million annually to “promote
responsible fatherhood” and for federal promotion of “healthy
marriages.” Earlier, President Bill Clinton created a “Presidential
Fatherhood Initiative,” and Vice President Al Gore chaired a federal
staff conference on “nurturing fatherhood.” Congress has established
bipartisan task forces on fatherhood promotion and issued a
resolution affirming the importance of fathers. Almost 80 percent of
the respondents to a 1996 Gallup poll saw fatherhood as the most
serious social problem today (NCF 1996).
A generation of fatherhood advocates has emerged who insist that
fatherlessness is the most critical social issue of our time. In
Fatherless America, David Blankenhorn calls the crisis of fatherless
children “the most destructive trend of our generation” (1995, 1).
Their case is powerful. Virtually every major social pathology has
been linked to fatherless children: violent crime, drug and alcohol
abuse, truancy, unwed pregnancy, suicide, and psychological
disorders—all correlating more strongly with fatherlessness than
with any other single factor, surpassing even race and poverty. The
majority of prisoners, juvenile detention inmates, high school
dropouts, pregnant teenagers, adolescent murderers, and rapists come
from fatherless homes (Daniels 1998, passim). Children from affluent
but broken families are much more likely to get into trouble than
children from poor but intact ones, and white children from
separated families are at higher risk than black children in intact
families (McLanahan 1998, 88). The connection between single-parent
households and crime is so strong that controlling for this factor
erases the relationship between race and crime as well as between
low income and crime (Kamarck and Galston 1990, 14).
Given these seemingly irrefutable findings, a case might be made
that both liberals and conservatives should rethink their
priorities. Rather than spending more on antipoverty programs, as
the left advocates, or on ever harsher law enforcement, beloved of
the right, both sides should get together and help restore
fatherhood as a solution to social ills. On its surface, the
government’s fatherhood campaign seems to make good sense. As
currently conceived, however, it may be having precisely the
opposite effect of that advertised.
The policymakers’ discovery of fatherhood has a disturbing side. In
August 2002, Health and Human Services (HHS) secretary Tommy
Thompson announced mass arrests of parents he says have disobeyed
government orders, calling them the “most wanted deadbeat parents.”
The roundups were carried out under a program started by the Clinton
administration called Project Save Our Children. The Clinton years
saw repeated and increasingly harsh measures against “deadbeat
dads.” The 1998 Deadbeat Parents Punishment Act was accompanied by a
“child support crackdown . . . to identify, analyze, and investigate
[parents] for criminal prosecution.” HHS secretary Donna Shalala
announced the Federal Case Registry to monitor almost 20 million
parents, whether or not they had child-support arrearages, and the
Directory of New Hires database, which records the name of every
newly hired individual in the country (HHS 1998b).
Amid all this attention, little informed discussion has occurred
about the appropriate role of public policy with respect to
fatherhood and families. Marshalling federal agencies to “promote”
something as private and personal as a parent’s relationship with
his own children raises questions. The assumption that the
government has a legitimate role in ameliorating the problem of
fatherlessness also glides quickly over the more fundamental
question of whether the government has had a role in creating the
problem. What we see in the “fatherhood crisis” may be an optical
illusion. What many are led to believe is a social problem may in
reality be an exercise of power by the state.
The conventional wisdom—enunciated by political leaders, media
commentators, and scholars—assumes that the problem stems from
paternal abandonment. Clinton claimed that the fathers pursued by
his administration “have chosen to abandon their children” (1992).
Blankenhorn writes, “Today, the principal cause of fatherlessness is
paternal choice . . . the rising rate of paternal abandonment”
(1995, 22–23). David Popenoe, author of the essay “Life Without
Father,” writes that fathers “choose to relinquish” the
responsibilities of fatherhood (1998, 34). Yet none of these
policymakers or writers cites any evidence for this claim; in fact,
no government or academic study has ever shown that large numbers of
fathers are abandoning their children. Moreover, studies that answer
the question directly have arrived at a different conclusion.
In the largest federally funded study ever undertaken on the
subject, Arizona State University psychologist Sanford Braver
demonstrated that few married fathers voluntarily leave their
children. Braver found that overwhelmingly it is mothers, not
fathers, who are walking away from marriages. Moreover, most of
these women do so not with legal grounds such as abuse or adultery
but for reasons such as “not feeling loved or appreciated.” The
forcibly divorced fathers were also found to pay virtually all child
support when they are employed and when they are permitted to see
the children they have allegedly abandoned (1998, chap. 7).
Other studies have reached similar conclusions. Margaret Brinig and
Douglas Allen found that women file for divorce in some 70 percent
of cases. “Not only do they file more often, but . . . they are more
likely to instigate separation.” Most significantly, the principal
incentive is not grounds such as desertion, adultery, or violence,
but control of the children. “We have found that who gets the
children is by far the most important component in deciding who
files for divorce” (2000, 126–27, 129, 158, emphasis in original).
One might interpret this statistic to mean that what we call divorce
has become in effect a kind of legalized parental kidnapping.
Moreover, the vast machinery devoted to divorce and custody
litigation now has the power not only to seize children whose
parents have done nothing legally wrong, but also to turn forcibly
divorced parents into outlaws without any wrong action on their part
and in ways they are powerless to avoid. What we are seeing today is
nothing less than the criminalization of parents, most often the
fathers. A father who is legally unimpeachable can be turned into a
criminal by the regime of involuntary divorce.
Partly responsible is “no-fault” divorce, or what marriage advocate
Maggie Gallagher terms “unilateral” divorce, which allows one spouse
to abrogate the marriage contract without incurring any liability
for the consequences (1996, 143–52). “In all other areas of contract
law those who break a contract are expected to compensate their
partner or partners,” writes researcher Robert Whelan, “but under a
system of ‘no fault’ divorce, this essential element of contract law
is abrogated” (1995, 3). When children are involved, their
separation from one parent is then enforced by the state, with
criminal penalties against that parent for literally “no fault” of
his own.
We do not know precisely how many are affected. Approximately 1.5
million divorces are granted annually in the United States. Some
studies predict 65 percent of marriages will end in divorce. Some 80
percent of divorces are unilateral, and the figure may be higher
when children are involved in approximately three-fifths of
divorces. All told, more than a million children become victims of
divorce each year (Furstenberg and Cherlin 1991, 22; Gallagher 1996,
5, 9, 22, 84–86; Martin and Bumpass 1989). These figures imply that
at least 700,000 parents are involuntarily divorced each year, and
control of their children is taken over by the government. For all
we can be certain, all 12–20 million parents now being pursued as
quasi-criminals by the federal government have been separated
involuntarily from their children through no legal fault of their
own (HHS 1998b; OCSEA 2001).
It is difficult to overestimate the importance of this point, which
contradicts the assumptions of policymakers who call for repeated
crackdowns on allegedly dissolute fathers. “Children should not have
to suffer twice for the decisions of their parents to divorce,”
Senator Mike DeWine declared in June 1998, “once when they decide to
divorce, and again when one of the parents evades the financial
responsibility to care for them” (Congressional Record, June 5,
1998, S5734). Yet most fathers and noncustodial mothers make no such
decision.
Punitive measures imposed on noncustodial parents might be
justifiable if, as is popularly believed (and as government
statements strongly imply), those parents were deserting their
families, giving legitimate grounds for divorce or even agreeing to
it. Parents who dissolve marriages arguably give the state an
interest in ensuring the well-being of their children. It is not
clear, however, what compelling public interest justifies removing
children from parents who do not act to dissolve their marriages.
Some reply that even fathers whose children are taken from them
through no fault or agreement of their own are still obliged to
support them financially and to obey other court orders. That all
parents have a legal and moral responsibility to care and provide
for their children is not at issue. The question not being asked,
however, is why parents charged with no civil or criminal wrongdoing
must surrender to the government the right to rear their own
children. Requiring an unimpeachable parent “to finance the filching
of his own children,” as attorney Jed Abraham puts it (1999, 151),
encourages government officials to seize control of the children,
property, and persons of as many citizens as they can, thereby
increasing their jurisdiction and the demand for their services.
Government’s Family Machinery
For all the recent concern about both family breakdown and judicial
power, it is surprising that so little attention is focused on
family courts. They are certainly the arm of government that
routinely reaches deepest into individuals and families’ private
lives. “The family court is the most powerful branch of the
judiciary,” according to Judge Robert Page of the New Jersey Family
Court. “The power of family court judges,” by their own assessment,
“is almost unlimited” (1993, 9, 11). Supreme Court justice Abe
Fortas once characterized them as “kangaroo court[s]” (In Re Gault,
387 U.S. 1, 27–28 [1967]).
Very little information is available on these courts. They usually
operate behind closed doors and leave no records. Statistics are
virtually nonexistent because judges and bar associations lobby to
prevent the compilation of figures (Levy, Gang, and Thompson 1997).
Most strikingly, they claim exemption from due process of law and
even from the Constitution itself. As one father reports being told
by the chief judicial investigator in New Jersey, “The provisions of
the U.S. Constitution do not apply in domestic relations cases since
they are determined in a Court of Equity rather than [in a] Court of
Law.”[1] A connected rule known as the “domestic relations
exception” is said to justify the federal courts’ refusal to
scrutinize family-law cases for constitutional rights violations (60
U.S.L.W. 4532 [June 15, 1992]). A substantial body of federal case
law recognizes parenting as an “essential” constitutional right “far
more precious than property rights” that “undeniably warrants
deference, and, absent a powerful countervailing interest,
protection.” This “fundamental liberty interest,” federal courts
have held, “cannot be denied without violating those fundamental
principles of liberty and justice which lie at the base of all our
civil and political institutions” (Hubin 1999, 124). Yet divorce
courts virtually never apply such apparently unequivocal
constitutional principles, and the federal courts resist becoming
involved.
A father brought before these courts is likely to have only a few
hours’ notice of a hearing that may last thirty minutes or less,
during which he will lose all decisionmaking authority over his
children, be told when and where he is authorized to see them, and
ordered to begin paying child support. His name will be entered on a
federal registry, his wages will immediately be garnished, and the
government will have access to all his financial information.
No allegations of wrongdoing, either civil or criminal, are
required. And no agreement to a divorce or separation is necessary.
Yet from this point, if he tries to see his children outside the
authorized times or fails to pay the child support (or courtordered
attorneys’ fees), he will be subject to arrest.
A parent pulled into divorce court against his will also must submit
to questioning about his private life, questioning that Abraham has
characterized as an “interrogation.” He can be forced to surrender
personal diaries, correspondence, financial records, and other
documents normally protected by the Fourth Amendment. His personal
habits, movements, conversations, writings, and purchases are
subject to inquiry by the court. His home can be entered by
government agents. His visits with his children can be monitored and
restricted to a “supervised visitation center.” Anything he says to
his spouse or children as well as to family counselors and personal
therapists can be used against him in court, and his children can be
used to inform on his compliance. Fathers are asked intimate
questions about how they “feel” about their children, what they do
with them, where they take them, how they kiss them, how they feed
and bathe them, what they buy for them, and what they discuss with
them. According to Abraham, fathers against whom no evidence of
wrongdoing is presented are ordered to submit to “plethysmographs,”
a physical-response test in which an electronic sheath is placed
over the penis while the father is forced to watch pornographic
films of children (1999, 148, 58). A parent who refuses to cooperate
can be summarily incarcerated or ordered to undergo a psychiatric
evaluation.
The parent from whom custody is removed no longer has any say in
where the children reside, attend school, or worship. He has no
necessary access to their school or medical records or any control
over medications or drugs. He can be enjoined from taking his
children to the doctor or dentist. He can be told what religious
services he may (or must) attend with his children and what subjects
he may discuss with them in private.
In family court, it is not unusual for a father earning $35,000 a
year to amass $150,000 in attorney’s fees, according to Washington
attorney William Dawes. Unlike any other debt, these fees may be
collected by incarceration. In fact, unlike the inmates in a
medieval debtors’ prison, he is punished even though he did not
incur the debt voluntarily. One of the most astonishing practices of
family courts is ordering fathers to pay the fees of attorneys,
psychotherapists, and other officials they have not hired and
summarily jailing them for not complying.
Family law is now criminalizing constitutionally protected
activities as basic as free speech, freedom of the press, and even
private conversations. In some jurisdictions, it is a crime to
criticize family-court judges or otherwise to discuss family-law
cases publicly, and fathers have been arrested for doing so. Fathers
who speak out against family courts report that their children are
used as weapons to silence their dissent, and attorneys regularly
advise their clients not to join fathers’ rights groups, speak to
the press, or otherwise criticize judges. Following his
congressional testimony critical of the family courts, Jim Wagner of
the Georgia Children’s Rights Council (CRC) was stripped of custody
of his two children and ordered to pay $6,000 in legal fees. When he
could not pay within fifteen days, the court jailed him. “We believe
. . . the court is attempting to punish Wagner for exposing the
court’s gender bias and misconduct to a congressional committee,”
said Sonny Burmeister, president of the council (CRC 1992, 9).
Though precluded by law from endorsing political ideologies, the
U.S. Department of Justice publishes a paper by the National Council
of Juvenile and Family Court Judges, an association of ostensibly
impartial judges who sit on actual cases, that attacks fathers’
groups for their “patriarchal values” and for advocating “the rights
of fathers instead of their responsibilities.” The ostensibly
apolitical judges ask, “How can we learn to counter the sound bites
of fathers’ rights groups?” (qtd. in McHardy and Hofford 1999).
Like other state court judges, family-court judges are either
elected or appointed and are promoted by commissions dominated by
lawyers and other professionals (Tarr 1999, 61, 67, 69–70). These
judges, in other words, occupy political positions and are
answerable to the bar associations that naturally have an interest
in maximizing the volume of litigation (Corsi 1984, 107–14; Watson
and Downing 1969, 98, 336). They also wield extensive powers of
patronage that enable them to force litigants to pay attorneys and
expert witnesses. These powers are not limited to family courts;
judges’ patronage powers have long been recognized (Jacob 1984,
112). Yet in no other courts has patronage so thoroughly eclipsed
justice. Although family courts, like most courts, claim to be
overburdened, it is clearly in their interest to be overburdened
because judicial powers and earnings are determined by demand. As
Judge Page explains, “Judges and staff work on matters that are
emotionally and physically draining due to the quantity and quality
of the disputes presented; they should be given every consideration
for salary and the other ‘perks’ or other emoluments of their high
office. . . . With the improved status of judges and family-court
systems comes their proper position in judicial budgets as worthy of
appropriate funding” (1993, 19). Though caseloads are large, the aim
in improving the court’s status is apparently to increase that load
still further. If the judiciary is viewed in part as a business,
then the more satisfied the customers—in this case, the bar
associations and divorcing parents who expect custody—the more
customers will be attracted. Again, in Judge Page’s words, “With
improved services more persons will come before the court seeking
their availability. . . . As the court does a better job more
persons will be attracted to it as a method of dispute resolution. .
. . The better the family-court system functions the higher . . .
the volume of the persons served” (1993, 20). In this view, the more
attractive the courts make divorce settlements for custodial
parents, the more prospective custodial parents will file for
divorce and the more children will be removed from, in most
instances, their fathers.
Batterers or Protectors?
A punitive quality seems to pervade the treatment of fathers in
general throughout divorce court, but the presumption of guilt
becomes explicit with accusations of spousal or child abuse. Fathers
accused of abuse during divorce are seldom formally charged, tried,
or convicted because there is usually no evidence against them;
hence, they never receive due process of law or the opportunity to
clear their names, let alone recover their children. Yet the
accusation alone prohibits a father’s contact with his children and
causes his name to be entered into a national database of sex
offenders (Parke and Brott 1999, 49–50).
Although initial accusations do not necessarily result in the
father’s arrest, they do confirm his status as a quasi-criminal
whose movements are controlled by the court. This control takes the
form of an ex parte restraining order, whose violation results in
imprisonment. Orders separating fathers from their children for
months, years, and even life are issued without the presentation of
any evidence of wrongdoing. They are often issued at a hearing at
which the father is not present and about which he may not even
know, or they may be issued over the telephone or by fax with no
hearing at all. A father receiving an order must vacate his
residence immediately and make no further contact with his children.
Boston attorney Elaine Epstein, former president of the
Massachusetts Women’s Bar Association, has written that “allegations
of abuse are now used for tactical advantage” in custody cases and
that restraining orders are doled out “like candy.” “Restraining
orders and orders to vacate are granted to virtually all who apply,”
and “the facts have become irrelevant,” she writes. “In virtually
all cases, no notice, meaningful hearing, or impartial weighing of
evidence is to be had.” Massachusetts judges alone issue some sixty
thousand orders each year (1993, 1).
Arresting fathers for attending public events such as their
children’s musical recitals or sports activities—events any stranger
may attend—is common. In 1997, National Public Radio reported on a
father arrested in church for attending his daughter’s first
communion. During the segment, an eight-year-old girl wails and begs
to know when her father will be able to see or call her. The answer,
because of a lifetime restraining order, is never. Even accidental
contact in public places is punished with arrest. New Jersey
municipal court judge Richard Russell captured the rationale in a
1994 judges’ training seminar: “Your job is not to become concerned
about the constitutional rights of the man that you’re violating as
you grant a restraining order. Throw [the man] out on the street,
give him the clothes on his back and tell him, see ya around. . . .
They have declared domestic violence to be an evil in our society.
So we don’t have to worry about the rights” (qtd. in Bleemer 1995,
1).
Some argue that judges must “balance” the rights of accused men with
the genuine need of women for protection, yet we do not normally
restrain citizens from their basic constitutional rights, including
the right of free movement and free association (especially with
their own children) merely because someone asks us to do so. We
assume that all citizens are innocent until proven guilty, that they
have a right to due process of law, that they should enjoy basic
freedom until evidence of an infraction is presented against them,
and that knowingly false accusations will be punished.
Some suggest that protective orders are issued on the principle of
“better safe than sorry,” yet this suggestion begs the most telling
question of how protective orders can prevent violence, inasmuch as
violence is already illegal. A father whose wife obtained a
restraining order against him was, according to the St. Petersburg
Times, “enjoined and restrained from committing any domestic
violence upon her” (Schroeder and Sharp 1992, 2). Was he, along with
the rest of us, not so restrained to begin with? The orders seem
designed not so much to prevent wrongdoing as to eliminate and
criminalize fathers. Forcing a father to stay away from his children
even though he has done no wrong may provoke precisely the kind of
violent response it ostensibly intends to prevent. “Few lives, if
any, have been saved, but much harm, and possibly loss of lives, has
come from the issuance of restraining orders and the arrests and
conflicts ensuing therefrom,” retired judge Milton Raphaelson of the
Dudley, Massachusetts, District Court writes. “This is not only my
opinion; it is the opinion of many who remain quiet due to the
political climate. Innocent men and their children are deprived of
each other” (2001, 4).
Connected here is the rapidly growing system of government-funded
visitation centers for which fathers not necessarily convicted of
any crime must pay as much as $80 an hour to see their own children
under the gaze of social workers. “People yell at you in front of
the children. They try to degrade the father in the child’s eyes,”
the Massachusetts News quotes father Jim O’Brien in August 1999. “I
wish I’d never come here. . . . They belittle you.” When O’Brien
asked his daughter if she’d made her first communion in the six
years since he had seen her, the social worker jumped in and said,
“You’re not allowed to ask that!” (Maguire 2000).
The practice of supervised visits is promoted by the Supervised
Visitation Network (SVN), a group whose membership has mushroomed
since its founding in 1992. The “standards and guidelines” on SVN’s
Internet site make clear that supervised visitation is not limited
to cases of violence or potential violence by the noncustodial
parent against the children, which it clearly regards as
exceptional, but is appropriate in any circumstances of “conflict”
between parents. SVN defines family violence to include matters that
are not physical or illegal or, indeed, violent: “Family violence is
any form of physical, sexual, or other abuse inflicted on any person
in a household by a family or household member” (SVN 2001, emphasis
added).
Domestic violence is now a major industry funded through
interlocking government programs at the federal, state, and local
levels and by private foundations and international organizations.
The premise on which this industry is largely based—that domestic
violence is a political crime perpetrated exclusively by men against
women— has already been refuted by many studies that show that men
and women commit domestic violence at roughly equally rates, so it
requires no further treatment here (Fiebert 1997; Straus
forthcoming). In a legal sense, of course, it does not matter what
percentage of domestic violence is committed by which sex because
the important issue is due process of law for every individual. Yet
the very recognition of a special category of “domestic violence,”
separate from other forms of assault—a category defined by the
private relationship between the parties rather than by the nature
of their actions—blurs the distinction between crime and noncriminal
personal conflict.
The power to criminalize nonviolent private behavior, personal
imperfections, and routine family disagreements is conveyed
concisely in the term abuse, which is ambiguous and elastic enough
to be stretched beyond what is usually considered physical and
criminal. “You do not have to be hit to be abused” is now a standard
line in the abuse literature. Abuse can be defined as “criticizing
you for small things” and “making you feel bad about yourself.”
Criminal justice agencies now accept these definitions in official
publications. The National Victim Assistance Academy, a project
funded by the U.S. Department of Justice and published on its
Internet site, includes such items as “extreme jealousy and
possessiveness,” “name calling and constant criticizing,” and
“ignoring, dismissing, or ridiculing the victim’s needs” in its
chapter on domestic violence (Coleman et al. 2000). By these
criteria, violence becomes whatever the alleged victim says it is.
In her influential book The Battered Woman, psychologist Lenore
Walker excuses a woman who violently attacked her husband because he
“had been battering her by ignoring her and by working late” (1979,
xv).
What matters here is to what degree this domestic violence hysteria
is aimed specifically at removing children from their fathers. There
is reason to believe that this objective is the main thrust behind
it. Feminists point out that most domestic violence occurs during
“custody battles” and that the vast preponderance of domestic
violence takes place among divorced and separated couples (Rennison
and Welchans 2000, 4–5). Susan Sarnoff of Ohio State University
points out that the Violence Against Women Act II, passed by
Congress in 2000, not only legitimizes the making of knowingly false
accusations, “but . . . offers abundant rewards for doing
so—including the ‘rights’ to refuse custody and even visitation to
accused fathers—with virtually no requirements of proof.” Moreover,
“the bill’s definition of domestic violence . . . is so broad that
it does not even require that the violence be physical” (1998, 1,
12).
The most serious effect of forcibly removing fathers after
quasi-criminal accusations is the abuse of children it induces.
Contrary to popular belief, it is not fathers, but
mothers—especially single mothers—who are most likely to abuse
children. An HHS study found that women ages twenty to forty-nine
are almost twice as likely as men to be perpetrators of child
maltreatment: “It is estimated that . . . almost twothirds [of child
abusers] were females” (HHS 1998a, xi–xii). Given that male
perpetrators are not necessarily fathers but more likely to be
boyfriends and stepfathers, fathers emerge as the least likely child
abusers. Researcher Robert Whelan found that children are as much as
thirty-three times more likely to be abused when a live-in boyfriend
or stepfather is present (1993, 29). And “[c]ontrary to public
perception,” write Patrick Fagan and Dorothy Hanks of the Heritage
Foundation, “the most likely physical abuser of a young child will
be that child’s mother, not a male in the household” (1997, 16).
Mothers accounted for 55 percent of child murders, according to a
1994 Justice Department report, whereas fathers were responsible for
only a relatively tiny percentage (BJS 1994). From the father’s
perspective, it appears that the real abusers have removed him from
the family so they can abuse his children with impunity. Fatherhood
advocate Adrienne Burgess writes that “fathers have often played the
protector role inside families” (Burgess 1997, 54). This claim is
confirmed by academic research, however diffident scholars may be
about saying so. “The presence of the father . . . placed the child
at lesser risk for child sexual abuse,” concludes a study of
low-income families. “The protective effect from the father’s
presence in most households was sufficiently strong to offset the
risk incurred by the few paternal perpetrators” (Rowland, Zabin, and
Emerson 2000).
Not only has this protective role become ideologically incorrect,
but it may also criminalize the father. Such violence by men as does
occur may be more often the result than the cause of fathers’ losing
their children; common sense suggests that fathers with no previous
proclivity to violence might well erupt when their children are
taken from them. “A significant percentage of domestic violence
occurs during litigated divorces in families who never had a history
of it,” according to Douglas Schoenberg, a New Jersey divorce
attorney and mediator (qtd. in Braver 1998, 240). Anne McMurray of
Australia’s Griffith University found that domestic violence usually
arose “during the process of marital separation and divorce,
particularly in relation to disputes over child custody, support,
and access.” McMurray’s subjects describe how violence “had not been
a feature of the marriage but had been triggered by the separation”
(1997, 543, 547).
Violent attacks against judges and lawyers are also usually
connected with custody litigation. “Judges and lawyers nationwide
agree . . . that family law is the most dangerous area in which to
practice,” reports the California Law Week (McKee 1999). The year
1992 was “one of the bloodiest in divorce court history—a time when
angry and bitter divorce litigants declared an open season on
judges, lawyers, and the spouses who brought them to court” (Cheever
1992, 29). Dakota County, Minnesota, district attorney James
Backstrom says family court produces far more violence than criminal
court does: “We’re most concerned about the people in family
court—the child support and divorce cases” (qtd. in Worden 2000).
The Boston Globe reports that some judges now carry guns under their
robes to protect themselves not from criminals but from fathers (McGrory
1994, 33). In December 1998, the ABC television magazine 20/20 also
reported on this phenomenon. No father was quoted, but fathers
generally were portrayed as little better than dangerous animals.
One of the many lawyers interviewed comments, “You really don’t know
what monsters lurk behind regular people.” It ought hardly to
surprise anyone that interfering with their children is one way to
find out.
Steven Baskerville © 2004

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