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Jed Diamond is the author of Male Menopause, also published by Sourcebooks, and several other landmark men's issues books. A teacher of addiction studies courses at the University of California at Berkeley, Diamond has been a licensed psychotherapist for 35 years. He is a nationally recognized educator and trainer in the area of men's issues. Diamond and his wife live in northern California and conduct relationship workshops together throughout the country.

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Are You Feeling Stressed? Fix It With Food
By Jed Diamond© 2007

Although we sing songs this time of year about peace on earth and good will toward men, we often feel stressed. From Halloween until New Year we are rushing to get things done. In nature, this is a time when everything slows down. Animals find cozy places to hibernate or burrow. Leaves fall and growing things get ready for a winter’s slumber. While the rest of nature quiets down, humans speed up. It’s no wonder we feel overwhelmed. Many people deal with stress by taking pills or drinking alcoholic beverages. I suggest you can fix it with food. Here’s how.

If you’re like me, I often eat when I’m stressed. My thoughts turn to “comfort” foods, most of which were introduced into my life when I was a kid in need of comfort. When I felt down when I was six I ate a whole tray of cinnamon rolls. At thirteen I craved ice cream. We had an ice cream parlor near our house (isn’t that a lovely sounding phrase? Remember when there were ice cream parlors?). I loved hot-fudge Sundays and strawberry delights. If I was really down I’d order “the special” which consisted of 10 scoops in my choice of flavors, four toppings, nuts, and as many cherries as they could fit on top. As I got older I became more sophisticated in my tastes for comfort.

But that’s not the kind of fix it food I’m talking about. I’m thinking more about Hippocrates way of fixing things when he said “Let your food be your medicine, and your medicine be your food.” In a recent article in Men’s Health magazine, Phillip Rhodes suggests some alternative comfort food.

THE PROBLEM: Low-Level Depression

A Starbucks Chantico may boost your mood temporarily, but it won’t improve your long-term outlook.

THE FIX: Eat 1 tablespoon of ground flaxseed daily. It’s the best source of alpha-linolenic acid, or ALA — a healthy fat that improves the workings of the cerebral cortex, the area of the brain that processes sensory information, including that of pleasure, says Jean-Marie Bourre, Ph.D., a nutrition researcher at Hospital Fernand Widal, in Paris. For best results grind it yourself. To meet your quota, sprinkle it on salads, vegetables, and cereal, or mix it in a smoothie or shake.

THE PROBLEM: Irritability and Rising Blood Pressure

Some of us are always close to the boiling point. And new research from the Netherlands may explain why. The scientists discovered that besides the obvious factors — obesity, lack of physical activity, and high salt consumption — diets containing too little potassium were the primary cause of hypertension. In their analysis, the scientists used 3,500 mg daily as the cutoff for defining a low potassium intake. The average intake for a man in his 30s? Only 3,100 mg. And it gets worse as we age.

THE FIX: Add a half cup of beans, a banana, or a handful of raisins to your daily diet. Each will increase your potassium intake by about 400 mg a day, boosting you above that 3,500 mg benchmark.

THE PROBLEM: You’re a workaholic

You spend too much time at the office. Your food choices are dictated by what you can eat fast. The results are a bulging waist-line and clogged arteries. Don’t let long days at your desk undermine your healthy eating habits.

THE FIX: Order an inexpensive minifridge and have it shipped directly to your office. (Rhodes likes the GE Spacemaker Compact Refrigerator; $130 at homedepot.com.) Stock it with food you won’t be ashamed to carry into a meeting: pints of milk; individual packets of string cheese; a few ounces of turkey; and a couple of in-case-of-emergency microwave meals, such as Healthy Choice, Smart Ones, and South Beach brands.

THE PROBLEM: Tension and anger with your spouse

You’re doing your best to take care of business. Your spouse is upset because…Well, your way of taking care of business doesn’t sit well with your partner. Dinner-time together is not something you’re looking forward to with joy.

THE FIX: Grilled salmon–for two. Eating fish rich in omega-3 fatty acids–salmon, mackerel, trout–can lower the likelihood of feelings of hostility by almost 20 percent, according to a recent study by Kaiser Permanente, a California-based health-care provider.

THE PROBLEM: Late night news makes you want to scream

As if your day wasn’t stressful enough you end it with a half hour of mayhem and violence which makes you want to kill someone or move to New Zealand. You head for the fridge and are prepared to eat whatever is inside.

THE FIX: Eat a piece of fruit. Any kind of fruit is fine–the sugar in it will give you the little burst of energy that your adrenaline-charged body is craving. But go for oranges in particular, says Pam Peeke, M.D., M.P.H., an assistant professor of medicine at the University of Maryland. "Most people get manually or orally fixated when they’re stressed out–that’s why some people smoke," she says. Or why they fail to notice they emptied an entire bag of Doritos in just under 49 seconds. Peeling an orange will keep your hands and mouth busy.

THE PROBLEM: Can’t sleep without a pill.

Many of us lead such stressed lives, we are sure the only way we can sleep is to pop a pill. Otherwise we toss and turn all night.

THE FIX: Oatmeal and a banana. The constant release of stress chemicals into your system may be interfering with production of the sleep-promoting hormone melatonin. Give your body a boost by whipping up a bowl of instant oatmeal and topping it with a sliced banana. Melatonin is found in only a few foods, and these are two of them.

Try some of these stress reducers and let us know what works for you. If you have other suggestions let us know so we can give them a try. Which healthy foods help you relax and reduce stress?

For more information, please visit www.menalive.com or www.writtenvoices.com.

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Jed Diamond is the author of seven books, including the best seller Male Menopause (Sourcebooks, 1997), which has now been translated into 16 foreign languages. His forthcoming book is entitled "The Irritable Male Syndrome" (Rodale, 2004). He has lent his expertise to such programs as "The View" with Barbara Walters and "Good Morning America" with Charles Gibson. See his Web site at menalive.com for more valuable information on living long and well.

The best way to reach Jed is by e-mail: Jed@menalive.com.  He also has an online newsletter and information through his web site: http://www.menalive.com.

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