
"I never had the honor of meeting Pat Tillman, and I'm the
poorer for it. By all accounts, he was quite a man, and it would
have been a great privilege to have called him a friend. He is
remembered as a good son, brother and husband, a loyal friend,
an excellent student, an overachieving athlete, a decent,
considerate person, a solid citizen in every respect. It is
obvious to everyone that Pat was raised in a good and loving
family to be an honorable man and to have the courage to possess
the virtues that make an honorable life.
"Many American families have suffered the same terrible
sacrifice that the Tillman family now suffers. The courage and
patriotism their loved ones exemplified is as fine and
compelling as Pat's, and their loss should grieve us just as
much. Were he here, I think Pat would insist we cherish their
memory and feel their loss no less than his. But it was his
uncommon choice of duty to his country over the profession he
loved and the riches and other comforts of celebrity, and his
humility that make Pat Tillman's life such a welcome lesson in
the true meaning of courage and honor.
"In our blessed and mostly peaceful society, we're not as
familiar with courage as we once were. We ascribe the virtue to
all manner of endeavors that only really require skill,
fortitude and a little daring, the qualities Pat Tillman showed
on the football field. Pat's best service to his country was to
remind us all what courage really looks like and that the
purpose of all good courage is love.
"He loved his country, and the values that make us exceptional
among nations, and good. And he worried after the terrible blow
we were struck on September 11, 2001, that he had 'never done a
damn thing' to serve her. Love and honor oblige us. We are
obliged to value our blessings and to pay our debts to those who
sacrificed to secure them for us. They are blood debts we owe to
the policemen and firemen who raced into the burning towers that
others fled; to the men and women who left for dangerous,
distant lands to take the war to our enemies and away from us,
and to those who fought in all the wars of our history.
"Pat Tillman understood his obligations, no better than his
comrades in arms, perhaps, but better than many of his
contemporaries. He must have known that such debts are not a
burden but that their recompense earns us our happiness. So he
volunteered to take his place in the ranks and defend his
country in a time of peril.
"Our country's security doesn't depend on the heroism of every
citizen. Nor does our individual happiness depend upon proving
ourselves heroic. But we have to be worthy of the sacrifices
made on our behalf. We have to love our freedom, not just for
the ease or material benefits it provides, not just for the
autonomy it guarantees us, but for the goodness it makes
possible. We have to love it so much we won't let it be
constrained by fear or selfishness. We have to love it as much,
even if not as heroically, as Pat Tillman loved it.
"It would be false to pretend that Pat's death hasn't hurt us.
The loss of every fallen soldier should hurt us lest we ever
forget the terrible costs of war and the sublime love of those
who sacrifice everything on our behalf. I respect and mourn his
death. But I will not dwell on the grief it occasioned when in
better days I remember what he did for us. I will remember that
Pat Tillman was an Army Ranger. He served one combat tour in
Iraq and had begun another in Afghanistan where he was killed. I
will remember that his family and his country lost a good man.
But I will also remember that while many of us may be blessed to
live a longer life than he did, few of us will ever live a
better one. And I will celebrate and encourage my children to
celebrate the brief, brave and happy life of Pat Tillman, a most
honorable man.
"To Marie, Pat and Danny, to Kevin and Rich, to Alex and all
Pat's friends, I can only offer you the assurance that my faith
promises me is true. To all of you who loved Pat and were loved
by him, he will never be so far from you that you cannot feel
his love. And you will see him again, when a loving God reunites
us all with the loved ones who preceded us in death. Take care
of each other until then, as Pat would want you to. May God
bless him. And may God bless us all.
"Thank you."
Transcript courtesy of the office of Sen. John McCain