Behind the Anna Nicole Smith circus lies an
important truth about fathers' rights. The long line of
opportunistic men who have lined up to be Smith's baby's dad since
Smith's death has diverted attention from the case's key fact:
photographer Larry Birkhead, Smith's ex-boyfriend, has a legitimate
claim to paternity. He has been thwarted for several months by the
same legal maneuvers which are often employed to separate fathers
from their children.
Long before Smith died and her estate became an
issue, Birkhead had filed for a DNA test to determine the paternity
of Smith's baby. In December, he told the Associated Press, "I am
the father of Dannielynn and I think this is ... a crime. I expect
to be reunited with my daughter."
Birkhead say he and Smith had picked out baby
names, shopped for items for the baby, and had put their thumb
prints in a baby book as the child's parents. Nevertheless, the baby
has lived at the home of Smith and her attorney/boyfriend Howard K.
Stern in the Bahamas since birth.
Rather than allow the DNA test, Smith and Stern
apparently decided to use a common ploy in paternity cases -- they
stalled. If the DNA test is delayed long enough, by the time
biological paternity is established the judge deciding custody will
likely decide that Stern is the baby's "psychological parent."
Judges are understandably reluctant to remove
infants from the care of the only parent or parents they've known,
regardless of actual paternity. Stern is many things, but he isn't
stupid. He knows that in child custody cases the baby is like the
football in a football game -- whoever has possession is in control.
This tactic is frequently employed in adoption
cases. For example, in the highly publicized Huddleston case in
Albuquerque, New Mexico, Mark Huddleston's baby boy was adopted out
when he was three days old, but Huddleston didn't know the baby
existed until two months after his birth. A New Mexico court later
found that the private adoption agency hadn't properly notified
Huddleston and had needed to get Huddleston's permission before
giving his son away.
Nonetheless, the stall tactic worked. By the time
the case was finally legally adjudicated, the boy had been with his
adoptive parents for more than a year, and the judge ruled it was in
the child's best interests to remain with them.
Time is running out for Birkhead -- Dannielynn is
already more than 5 months old, and once a baby reaches six months,
it is quite possible to get judges to rule in favor of the
"psychological parent," rather than the biological one. After a year
it becomes practically a slam dunk.
If Stern is like most litigants in this situation,
he probably already has a mental health professional or two on tap
to testify in court as to his bond with the baby. He probably also
has extensive video tapes documenting his interactions with the
girl.
The way to combat these machinations is for family
courts to order mandatory DNA testing of all babies within 30 days
of a putative father's filing for paternity. When these orders are
flouted, as they often are, judges must be willing to give their
orders teeth by meting out punishments for contempt of court.
Moreover, most fathers do not have the legal resources to fight long
legal battles -- courts must be proactive in resolving paternity
claims quickly and correctly.
A father has the right to parent his own child.
The Smith case demonstrates how easily mothers and their new
partners are able to violate that right.