Men are doing at least as much household work as women, according to a
new survey conducted by the University of Michigan Institute for
Social Research (ISR), the world's largest academic survey and
research organization.
The recently released study shows that women do an average of 27 hours
of housework a week, compared to 16 hours a week for men. Balanced
against this, however, is the study's less-publicized finding that the
average man spends 14 hours a week more on the job than the average
woman. Thus men's overall contribution to the household is actually
slightly higher than women's.
In fact, studies conducted by the ISR and others have found that rough
equality between the workloads shouldered by men and women has existed
for at least four decades. Gender issues author Warren Farrell says
that these findings belie the misconception that our era is that of
"the second shift woman and the shiftless man."
As Farrell notes, negative references to men and housework litter our
popular culture. "The Myth of Male Housework: For Women, Toil Looms
From Sun to Sun" wrote one major publication, over a cartoon depicting
a woman juggling (and struggling) with a baby, a roasted turkey, and a
house pet, while her husband watches TV and "juggles" his beer and his
potato chips. Other major publications have highlighted women's
burdens under headlines such as "For Women, Having It All May Mean
Doing It All," and "The Trouble with Men," with one even commenting,
"A woman's work is never done, a man is drunk from sun to sun."
According to Farrell, the idea of the "second shift woman and the
shiftless man" was brought into vogue in part by UC Berkeley professor
Arlie Hochschild's best-selling 1989 book The Second Shift. In
it she wrote (and much of the media uncritically repeated) that "women
work an extra month of 24 hour days each year." But Hochschild's
research and conclusions were deeply flawed. For the most part she
compared the housework burdens of full-time employed males with those
of part-time employed females, portraying men working 50 hour weeks as
lazy and selfish for not doing as much housework as their wives who
were working a 20 hour week.
Hochschild also claimed that men did no more housework in the late
1980s than in the pre-feminist era, but, with one minor exception, she
used data on male housework from studies done in the
pre-feminist era, rendering it worthless. In addition, the book also
defined "housework" to include chores usually done by women, ignoring
most of the household tasks generally done by men.
The "second shift" myth also stems from the idea that today both
husband and wife work what is presumed to be a 40 hour week, but when
both go home at five, the woman does housework and the man does
little. Gloria Steinem, in fact, says that in today's economy men have
one job, but women have two. In reality, while some couples' economic
lives conform to the 40-40 model, the average full-time employed man
works eight hours a week more than the full-time employed woman, women
are four times as likely as men to work part-time, and women are much
more likely than men to be full-time homemakers. Housework burdens
naturally reflect this.
Feminists correctly note that, as a general rule, both men and women
list housework as one of their least enjoyable tasks and, since women
do more housework than men, this shifts the advantage to men.
However, while people may not enjoy cooking or folding the laundry in
and of themselves, they are usually much happier at home and in casual
dress (and perhaps talking on the phone or watching TV while they
work), than they are in a supervised and regimented work environment.
Also, while housework may seem like drudgery compared to middle-class
white collar jobs, it doesn't when compared to blue collar or "pink
collar" work.
In addition, both the ISR survey and The Second Shift count
only hours worked, without noting the special contributions of men who
do dangerous and physically demanding work. Of the 25 most dangerous
jobs listed by the US Department of Labor, men comprise at least 90%
of the labor force in all of them. According to the Occupational
Safety and Health Administration, nearly 50 American workers are
injured every minute of the 40-hour work week, and every day 17
die--16 of them male.
Despite the withering criticism men have endured, it is clear that men
are doing their fair share in the home, and have been since before the
feminist era.